(Excuse the goofy ahh cat drawing lol I’m on scratch mobile which sucks to draw with plus I’m using my finger and I did it in like 5 seconds so no judging :skull:) Anyways- Ok so like a few days ago I made a “coming out” post bc I wasn’t sure what the heck I was. Now I can say with confidence what I identify as. 1: Demigirl. This is a gender. Meaning I mostly identify as a female, but also kinda neutral (if that makes sense). I use she/her pronouns along with they/them pronouns. 2: Oriented aro-ace. Aroace is aromantic and asexual. Aromantic means little to no romantic attraction to any genders, asexual means little to no… uh… spicy attraction lol. I personally am s-x-repulsed, meaning don’t want nothing to do with uh the thing lol (you either understand or don’t). Oriented aroace I suck at explaining, so I heavily encourage you to use google if you’re interested in learning lol. 3: lesbian. Everyone knows this one, but in case you don’t, it’s where a female-identifying person is attracted to other female-identifying people. So pretty much I’ve never had a crush, and *spicy* attraction or interactions have always been way out of the question for me. So I’ve identified as aroace for many years. However, I recently began to feel drawn to wlw tiktok compilations on yt. And it made me realize that I truly wanted something like that. Not in a desperate way though. And when I thought of it, it lost appeal, but I also wanted it even more at the same time idk. Plus I’ve never had a crush. I have found a good deal of fictional characters attractive before, and they had good qualities I’d want in a relationship, but I don’t think it necessarily classified as an actual crush. Even if I could see myself with them. When I googled this most people classified this as “oriented aroace lesbian”. So I googled it and found this amazing flag by solarlesbian on Twitter. It has all my favorite colors (cyan/teal and purple *sobs*) so that’s an easy win for me XD I hope it becomes a well-known, approved by the community flag.
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