✦ ground rules: no bullying, i will not be laying a hand on any of my children period. my house my rules, never being punished with foods clothes or hair. want to develop a relationship where you are not scared to share anything w me, education is important but if you need help i can get tutoring. sports/activities introduced at a young age but u can choose sports and activities ur mental health & family bond>>> anything else ✦ screens : 0-3 no screens, possibly tv on low volume like kids nursery rhymes nothing too stimulating, 4-7 ipad but limited time ur just a kid, 8-10 more time on ipad, computer for school normally, 11 ipad freedom, computer 12-13 depends but probably a phone with screen time 14-18 all of the above, ill stop monitoring screen time eventually ✦ language & language : 0-3 ill try and introduce you to spanish or french nursery rhymes or words 4-7 speaking languages around children + differentiating "bad" words and good words. 8-10 might start taking classes with that language or learning to understand and try speaking + enforce the importance of not using "bad" words 11-13 taking language classes + ik a lot of kids curse at this age, still try not to enforce it and inform about slvrs 14-18 I cant really control it now, i will be super mad if u use them on anyone especially adults and slvrs. ✦ sensitive stuff : 0-4 will be taught about ur parts and in a healthy way, interchanging btwn "kiddy" words and the real terms 4-8 learn about safety with those parts and safety of others 9-10 talk about periods wether boy or girl boy : teach about mutual respect and what you can do, girl : teach about what to do and not to be embarrassed 11?/12-18 still informing for a while and then also learning about s3x and how those things work ✦ clothing : 0-4 i'll dress u, comfy and cute ig? whatever is good for u and cute kiddy patterns like im not gonna be sad beige u can wear unicorn pjs 5-8 developing own style, more clothing freedom as long as its comfy and appropriate for weather 9-12 clothing freedom, ill still buy stuff for you but you can choose things, developing style and colors you like, clothing you are comfy with 13-18 complete freedom, i might buy you some clothes or stuff you ask for, wear whatever aslong as ur not trying to fit in and wear stuff you dont like/ dress for others
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