Explanation becuz: So my mom always tells me I’m a failure, mistake, just like my father, etc. and she tells me she loves me I feel like it’s a lie, because she says that when she’s dr7nk, and when’s she’s not, she doesn’t say it at all unless I get A’s, if I get a B, she’ll think I’m a failure because she’s like one of the Asian moms but, polish. She always takes sides by her bf that she knows for 2 years then her own daughter for her whole life and yes this is a vent,