#INTRO hi guyss welcome to episode one of the girl talk series! i lowkey wanna give it a name but idk what. anyways this episode as you can tell is about crushes. (one of the best and worst things ever) this is one of the requests so bookie i hope this is what you were thinking of if not reach out to me and we can work smth else out! but i lowkey have other episodes to start typing so i'm just gonna get started. <3 #TIPS 1. first off do not get upset at yourself because of the feelings you are feeling. i can promise you that crushes are completely normal dont get upset at yourself for having them or being upset because of who you have a crush on, it's really just what your heart wants 2. when having a crush it fr can be real easy to avoid them. BUT if you actually wanna get with the person you have to put some work into it. i'll talk about some ways that you can start convos 3. strike up a conversation. don't just be a starer (unless thats how u pull ik some yall do shjj with ur eyes) but me personally i think you should try and talk to them. you could start off with a compliment since that'll butter them up a bit ig then you could try and talk about things that you know they find interesting but make sure you talk about yourself a bit not just about them. 4. i don't believe that in order to pull you have to look super hot all the time, i think looking good should be for yourself. so if you find that your only getting dressed up for this crush then it might be time to reexamine your priorities and focus on loving yourself first which ties into my next point.. 5. LOVE YOURSELF FIRST!! i cannot stress this enough dont change yourself or get all dressed up and wear makeup just for somebody else to notice you should do what you think makes you attractive don't just do it for the attention from others 6. with crushes you should think is it a physical attraction or there personality. now that matters depending on what you want from them, if you want a relationship you should probably think more on the personality scale #NOTES im sorry if this isnt what yall was hoping for lmao i can do a part two for crushes because i have a lot more to say but i still have other stuff to do thank you for reading & supporting >> make a request for urself! htt♡ps://for♡ms.♡gle/h♡3PbrQ♡TPnVf2a♡8BL6