I don't usually make vents, about anyone. About my personal life, or about something that happened. Or at least I haven't in a rare while, but recently there's been a situation that I'm not handling all too well and it's all because this person won't just shut up and let sleeping dogs lie. Basically, what happened was I felt uncomfortable being this persons' friend for a multitude of reasons. One is that they were making my life at my job miserable, one time they even hit me so hard on the arm that my skin turned red and would often say things about my weight. Whether indirectly or on purpose it is never ok to do something like that. And even through that, I still comforted them when they cried, and I still felt bad for them over the smallest things, and I'd even hang out with them for a long while in town or drive them to and from work without expecting anything in return. Which, yeah, doesn't seem like much and it isn't at all, but that's just to show that we were actually kind of good friends despite only knowing each other for a short amount of time. HOWEVER. I came to find out that they were talking about me behind my back. Saying I "had a tone" or that I "yelled at them" when I didn't do that in any shape or form. She also said I "gave her dirty looks" and there was a whole lot of other dumb stuff she talked about too, but those are just the ones I know about from the top of my head. For one thing, I am human, and I do lose my temper and I will admit to that. I have some really not-super-great anger issues and it's really easy for me to lose my cool. That does not mean that I mean to and I apologize almost immediately unless I feel I have a legitimate reason to be angry. BUT. Anyways, it was a whole thing. After finding this stuff out, I started to distance myself and they got angry after they found out about it and started talking behind my back MORE. I heard about it and confronted them pretty angrily, and imo, it was rightfully so. I don't take my name being dragged around lightly and I doubt anyone would. They came back at me with a whole bunch of stuff that doesn't even really matter. Things like, "Oh well, you just want my friends all to yourself" or "You're so loud" or "You yell at my friends you're so mean"...stuff like that, and after like a few minutes of arguing I simply said "I'm done" and blocked them. Even after that, they still continued to talk about me behind my back, and one of our mutual friends had to talk her down. But, that didn't stop her. One of my friends who she talked bad about as well confronted her and asked her to apologize and she refused, and in the meantime was also being incredibly disrespectful imo. But even after ALLL that, and me having gotten over it and not hearing anything about it, I continued to find more and more evidence of her talking bad about me. One most memorable one was when she drew characters (herself and her boyfriend) referencing bases and in the chat bubbles above their heads, made references to me. She then lied about it and said that "it wasn't her intention" which, I don't know how it wouldn't be her intention if she literally wrote it down. LATER ON...she told one of my friends she wanted to reconcile, and proceeded to apologize to THEM and make excuses for her behavior. Saying things such as "Oh, my dad was injured" or "I lose my temper sometimes" (which is apparently ok for her to do but not me ..), but apparently the reconcilation would've taken me apologizing too for "sending my friends after her". Which I did not do. I told them that if they said something or did something to her then that would entirely be on them, and that if they did not want to be a part of the drama in that way then that is completely fine with me. The only friend she could give me an example of we'll call AJ. AJ simply asked for an apology for both of us because she was talking about us and that is all. It was not "Sending them after her" it was asking for an apology. I later came to find out that she'd posted a video on TikTok basically venting about me and one of my OTHER friends said something about it after seeing it, and she tried to justify it saying she could do it since it was her TikTok. Which, yes, it is true, however that does not mean she's not free from the repercussions of her actions. But she told one of my other friends that she basically doesn't feel "safe" being in contact with her because "Nymph won't stop". I haven't said anything nor done anything to her in this entire fight, mind you. I haven't even so much as looked at her or even seen her around nor crossed her path at school. If she ever DOES apologize, I imagine this is how the interaction would go. I would have accepted her apology had all this not gone down the way that it did. All I wanted was to distance myself, and this is what I get. Art: Audio: BoJack Horseman !! Please do not trace nor steal or else I'll report you !!
