ayyy we’re up again folks ! this has relatively the same content but worded/covered better lmao (scratch i swear bro if you take this down why bruh what is wrong with you) maybe if this stays up i can actually start making more projects and continue to be a little active on here— who knows — hey guys serious project today unfortunately i know i know what a bummer lets have a chat “ i’m not entirely too sure how to open this but i think it would be best to just remind everyone of basic boundaries with strangers online and then reiterate my specific boundaries as a stranger to you all on the internet these are pretty basic rules but i suppose with this new generation of internet babies, they seem to have been forgotten 1 : don’t reveal your personal info (exact address, email address, phone number, …) 2 : do not harass or ‘hate mail’ other users ever in any circumstance, be mature and appropriate 3 : do not send/request inappropriate things or messages directed towards another person 4 : do not vent/tr4um4 dump to people you don’t know well/didn’t ask their permission there are definitely more but i think i hit the most basic ones although they haven’t been as recent or as often, i have been getting some pretty disgusting messages or requests from some elementary school/middle school aged kids. i feel as though my relaxed behavior has been taken advantage of in a way. it was the worst last year when i was most active in a collaborative group. while i will own up for placing myself in that community with very young kids and communicating with them, i feel like i had the right to believe none of these very young kids would ever attempt to borderline sxt me. younger me would never, ever even think of harassing a person like that, much less if they were 5 or 6 years older then me ? nevertheless, they happened and i attempted to brush it off or play it cool and allow them the excuse of “oh well, they were too young to understand that its wrong and hurtful and damaging.” recently, i’ve been thinking on that situation more often and realizing how affected by it i was. my friends elsewhere strongly encouraged me to make this post in an attempt to bring light to this issue. it was completely unacceptable and i just let it happen. while i will not be naming names, you should know who you guys are and i really hope you have changed. while i will also not be naming specifics, i will go over a few things that were done/told to me for the sake of showing what is not acceptable as well as just getting it off my chest because its been swept under the rug for far too long tw !! 1 : told multiple times by a 12/13 yr old to ‘say their name’ over the site’s voice call because my ‘voice was so hot’ 2 : having pictures of my hair or clothes saved and shown around by 11-13 yr olds 3 : being told by an 11 yr old the many things they wanted me to do to them in a s3xu4l way 4 : being told/pressured to rp m4k3-out with an 11/12 yr old (i did not give into the peer pressure if thats how it sounded :skull:) 5 : pressured to take part in a ‘romantic themed’ game with a bunch of kids that did not specify their age 6 : being told (after i reminded them of our age gap and how inappropriate it would be to fl1rt with me) that they “like them old” by an 11/12 yr old 7 : being told that a person in the group “likes me and wants to get with me” and others agreeing in front of me, their ages 11-14 8 : being told members of the group are in/are parts of my body as a ‘funny joke’ there are other things but again, i would rather not go into detail and i think these are enough points this is by no means a direct callout post, just a general and more vague post, revealing whats happened over a year and a half i am not very close with anyone that took part in this but it still upsets me, call me a baby for being hung up on something like this a year later but it is how i feel if you feel as though you might’ve been ‘mentioned’ in the project, please do not out yourself, please apologize elsewhere and not risk the backlash here (this does not mean i don’t want an apology) so please, internet babies, before you crack out your keyboard, think just a little harder about what you are writing and if you really should be writing it and again, i am almost 17, almost in college, if you are in elementary or middle school fl1rt1ng with me, remind yourself of how incredibly creepy that is and how awful it would really be if the roles were switched the only people allowed to ‘fl1rt’ with me know who they are, i’ve already talked to most of them about this whole thing, please do not overstep my boundaries and be a normal decent person thank you guys for reading through this, it was a lot to write and took a good amount of courage to say anything because a part of me still feels at fault as the older one thanks, bye :)
