For all of the haters: Seriously? Hating people? Why? So what if they identify as a different gender that you don't approve of. Many people take it seriously when you are doing "mean" things, they take it to heart even if you may not mean it. So seriously why? You are just causing allot of unnecessary pain. Do you know what it's like to come out to your family? I told my mom and luckily she was okay with it. My grandmother on the other hand, she was like: "what do you mean he's not straight?" my mom had to explain: "well he's still deciding and he's not sure." some people aren't as lucky as me and don't have a good support structure, when I fall my mom is there all the time to catch me. When you look at two young children playing. Before any gender things are added into their lives as: this is girly or this is boyish, they all play and have fun and don't care. The level of innocence in them just brings tears to my eyes. So next time hater when you feel like saying something mean, just think about what you would feel like if you got it said to you, then imagine it hurts twenty thousand times more.
For all of you insistent on pronouns: You have got major guts, seriously. Like you are amazing. So amazing. But you've gotta be safe online, there may be predators out there or just plain old internet trolls. They are online and don't take anything with a grain of salt. They just spout mean things coz they think it's funny. And yes they are being mean and sometimes outright misgendering you. It's the internet, you shouldn't take anything with a grain of salt unless someone is talking about hurting themselves because anything mean is usually a troll trying to get a reaction and hurt you. Be the better person, don't hurt yourself, laugh with them at what they are saying. I know this is easier said then done. But hey, by now we'd have a time machine.
