parents just please stop pushing your child.. They are a hard worker.. they are just going through things. don't body shame them and compare them with other kids to them that what make the not feel safe talking to you NOR telling you anything. it makes them want to cry telling them those things The school is making them have less lack of sleep the work their @ off trying make you happy treat your kids right like they treated u. understand them instead of saying bad things about them. -@darkdragon1389
OKAY! Think of it this way. You went through different things we went through. And the difference between us and u is a lot. u didn't have to deal with many Fake friends, being hated on for no reason, always being told Be SkInNy, or WhY cAn'T yOu Be LiKe So AnD So'S kId. YOU KINDA HAVE TO RAISE US TO BE LIKE THAT. 12-18 are the hardest times in a kids life. Hell I dealt with it earlier, when I was 8 years old I had to deal with this, and other people probably younger. Build us up, so we don't see our parents as a person we need for approval if we want to succeed. just so you know, the future is in our hands, not yours anymore. We've just started middle or high school, we're going through depression, anxiety, mood swings, body changing, finding out who cares for us, and who we are. Coming home everyday, and being greeted with this is just crap. Treat us with respect, like how you treat our friends. Don't single us out, you always say. "BaCk In My DaY, I cOuLdN't SaY tHaT tO mY mOM, oR I wOuLd Be SlApPeD sO hArD, YoU hAvE nO iDea." THEN DON'T TREAT US THE WAY YOUR PARENTS DID IF YOU HATED IT. WERE BURIED IN HOME WORK. AT THIS POINT YA'LL FREAK OUT IF WE HAVE AN A- IN A CLASS! FOR guys: They're expected to man up, and don't cry, and always viewed as a creep (idk much about boys, ya'll help me with this one). for Girls: We have to be caked in make-up, always assumed as pick-me's, always told to be skinny, or eat more. ETC. TO ALL PARENTS: Stop tearing us down, cuz one day ya'll regret it. What u guys tell us now, impacts how we look at ourselves later in life, and how we will treat our kids (If u get some kids) or how u treat others.
